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Sex Expert: Gentlemen’s Guide to Hookups

We are all adults, and sex can just be plainly that; sex! It’s not always about hearts and flowers, but it’s more about sharing the right connection. Not all sexual encounter should be about a happy-ever-after relationship. There’s a lot of fun in having no-strings-attached sex. As a matter of fact, it’s one of the best sex experiences out there.

Meeting a nice-looking, random lady and taking her back to your place makes the sex a whole lot exciting. So gentlemen, if you feel naughty for a hookup tonight.

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Here’s a comprehensive guide on 4 steps you should take to get that local hookup :

1. Keep Your Cool

Convincing a hot lady to have hookup sex with you on the first night can be hard, but so easy at the same time. Confidence is always key! When you’re confident and having a good time, the ladies will automatically be drawn to you. When you approach a lady, never be that creepy and clingy guy who always talks about hookup sex all the time. Ladies get repelled by a guy who tries too hard because it only means you’re not confident and probably they’ll not have a good time when you take them back to your place. Just maintain a cool balance, but always give hints that you want a hookup tonight.

2. Take the Lead

Ladies are attracted by a guy who is in command. Don’t just sit around there and expect them to come begging for you to take them to your place. You have to be the one to instigate the conversation. Make the first move and let her know that you’ve been eying her all this time. Go up to her and take her hand and tell her how attractive she is and that you’d like to take her back to your place. It’s that simple. Nowadays women are more mature and could also be looking for hookup dating just as you are.

3. Don’t Take the Last Drink

Even if you’re having a great time and the drinks are making it lively, if you’re going to get laid tonight, you’d want to perform for her. “Whiskey dick” is not a myth gents! Drunk sex may sound like fun but if you’re not hitting the right spots or keep up with the rhythm, then you’d rather just not go through all the trouble of taking her home.

4. Make an Emotional Connection

This may sound contradicting but making an emotional connection and getting to know each other a little better will make things fun and exciting. Women know that even if they are there for hookup dates, they need to feel like they know you. A proper gentleman will treat her with some respect so that she doesn’t feel like she was used after your hookup.

5. Hookup Website

If you’re looking for an online hookup, you are at the original, the one that started the hookup sex dating website,  In 2019 there are a lot of hookup sites where you can get some local sex. There are way too many hookup apps out there. It’s up to you to choose which one has what you like most.  But we have the bests members, groups and blogs. According to us. 😉

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