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How To Keep Hook Ups Exciting

It’s the end of 2018. It’s a miraculous time to be sexual. Cities have passed laws that allow women to go topless, and to prosecute sexual harassment in the workplace. Our culture is embracing the concept of casual sex in a positive way.

Women and men are equally encouraged to take the bull by the horns and own their sexual desires, fetishes, and personal needs. Even books like Fifty Shades of Grey flew off the shelves!

Mind you! – the #MeToo movement has made a meeting and flirting with others at work etc a bit more awkward, to say the least!  Online dating is booming and appropriate flirting with other willing participants is back!

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Cultural shifts like this have become a catalyst for discussions on sexuality and satisfaction, but that’s a double-edged sword that’s made some folks realize that their sex lives have gotten a little stale or boring. It’s easy to fall into a rut, whether you’re single or married, monogamous or polyamorous. We enjoy comfort and routine. Fortunately, there are some things you can do about it.

First, let’s identify if your bedroom game has become a little stale or predictable. Answer the following questions:

What would you choose, sex or sleep (in the morning)?

If you’d rather get a few extra winks, you might not have something exciting to wake up for. Sure, there was a time in your life that you’d wake from the dead if it was to get laid, but now you value sleep. Time to turn back the clock.

Do you wear something sexy to bed? Do you put effort into the decision?

If you’re wearing boxers with the same hole in the left ass cheek to bed, you have to ask yourself, “Is it me?” when you consider the root of your problems in the bedroom. If you’re not putting effort into that area of the bedroom, it might show a lack of general excitement for sex. Consider a pair of black compression boxers or something in mesh from your local adult store Show off a little.

When was the last time your sexual escapades left the safety of your duvet cover?

If you’re only having sex in your bedroom or in one position, you’ve automated the process, but that’s ok, you can make adjustments. Consider the kitchen, the tub, or even a swinger club! Take your hook up to someplace secluded and have a little fun. We don’t suggest you get arrested or anything drastic, but change things up a little and have some fun! Get a hotel that’s a little fancier. Set your hook up on the dining table and eat your meal. There are endless options.

Do you only use sex toys when you’re alone?

If so, you’re missing out. Using toys with your hook up can expand your adult dating experience and create something mind-blowing. A dildo or a strap on can create double penetration when it’s just you and your hook up.

Vibrators can be attached to the tongue for blowjobs, and there’s no end to the kinky and leather toys available to you. Take your sex life out of first gear, and add a little power.

All it takes to punch up a dull sex life is a little adventure and a little effort. With some of both, you can turn 20-minute missionary style bedroom sex into something amazing for both of you, and you’ll have them coming back for more on a regular basis.

Experimentation and variety are the spices to any sexual encounter! It’s time to be sexual again!

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